Opening Note
This week has me thinking about what actually grounds people before they launch into what’s next.
We celebrated my Nana’s 100th birthday and rolled almost immediately into another major family milestone: our youngest son, Gabe, graduating from high school.
Needless to say, life is happening here!
Watching Gabe walk across the stage brought all the emotions parents know well—pride, excitement, nostalgia, hope, and just enough uncertainty to remind you that no matter how much you prepare your children for the world ahead, you cannot fully prepare them for the world they are actually entering.
And honestly, I don’t think that uncertainty is unique to graduates right now.
Most professionals I know feel it too.
AI, shifting workforce expectations, changing definitions of success, economic pressure, loneliness, rapid, globally dynamic change—it’s a lot of motion all at once. Which is why I keep coming back to this thought:
The graduates entering the world right now don’t need false certainty. They need grounding.
Not a perfectly mapped path. Not performative confidence. Not a polished personal brand.
Grounding.
A clear understanding of who they are, what they stand for, how they want to treat people, and how they want to show up when things don’t go according to plan.
The same is true for leaders.
The strongest leaders I know are not the ones pretending to have every answer. They are the ones grounded enough to navigate uncertainty without losing clarity, steadiness, perspective, or humanity in the process. They are a calming, steady presence amid the chaos. They are grounded.
That grounding becomes especially important during transitions and highly visible moments—which may be why commencement speeches matter more than people realize.
Many commencement speeches focus on the speaker’s personal formula for success. The best commencement addresses help the graduates, and their families, feel seen inside the reality they are actually stepping into.
Big shout out to Eric Church who used his guitar as a metaphor to outline fundamental pillars of life – faith, family, marriage, ambition, community and individuality. His creative approach had the right message for 2026. Stay grounded. Be authentic. Seek real connection.
As Gabe, and his 2026 peers prepare for their next chapter, it occurs to me that before anyone, at any age can launch into what’s next, they need to start with who they are, what they stand for, and how they want to show up in the world.
Different generations. Different disruptions. Same human fundamentals.
I’d love to know: what’s keeping you grounded, authentic and connected right now? Please share in the comments.
Worth Your Time
It won’t surprise you that what caught my attention this week all seemed to circle back to the same underlying question: how do people stay grounded while navigating rapid change.
Several articles focused on the impact AI is already having on entry-level work, organizational structures, and career pathways. The details will continue to evolve, but one thing already feels clear: adaptability, curiosity, communication skills, and the willingness to keep learning may matter more than perfectly linear career paths.
I also appreciated the growing emphasis around attitude-first hiring. More leaders are emphasizing coachability, work ethic, emotional intelligence, and cultural contribution alongside technical capability. In uncertain environments, how people show up increasingly matters as much as what they know.
And one thing I hope we don’t lose in all the acceleration: the human need for connection, presence, and meaningful relationships. One line I came across this week stayed with me:
“The answer to loneliness and discontent isn’t a PR campaign—it’s presence.”
That feels true in life, leadership, and organizations alike.
Finally, a personal reminder I’m still working on myself: small shifts matter. Focus, attention, habits, energy, relationships, and growth are rarely transformed overnight. More often, they’re shaped gradually through repeated behaviors that either ground us—or pull us further away from ourselves.
The Leadership Edge
One shift leaders need right now?
Before focusing on a message. Clarify the person delivering it.
Leaders spend enormous time focused on internal and external communication, but far less time developing internal definition:
What do I stand for?
What do I want people the people around me to experience?
What values are non-negotiable for me?
What can my team count on from me?
In uncertain environments, people look for more than expertise. They look for steadiness, clarity, self-awareness, and trustworthiness. They want to know what it means to work with their leaders here and now.
That’s why leadership communication is never just about wording. It’s about alignment between message, behavior, energy, and values.
Before people launch into what’s next – college, first job, a promotion, a leadership role – grounding matters more than certainty. The human fundamentals still matter.
Beyond the Room
A few lighter things from my world this week…
Giving graduation gifts reminded me how much books remain part of my love language. This year’s stack includes The Naked Roommate, Make Your Bed, and Simple Abundance — each speaks in its own way about growing up, adapting, finding your footing and your joy.
I also loved the idea behind this idea: the solo book crawl. A day of reading in bookstores, coffee shops, farmers markets, and outdoors sounds like a delicious guilty pleasure. I don’t think solo is a requirement. Going to see if some of my friends are in!
Another new thing to try – Ultratrax events. My husband and I supported our other son Will’s hardcore Spartan racing era, but this is much more my speed and style.
Thinking about our incredible National Parks. This article on underrated national parks that deserve more attention immediately sparked travel conversations in our house. We have Acadia National Park on repeat most summers, but this is my inspiration to branch out and try something new. Do you have a favorite?
What’s Ahead
My schedule has new openings for leaders preparing for high-visibility moments – keynote addresses, major presentations, organizational announcements and other leadership opportunities.
Moments like these shape outcomes, reputations, and careers. I’d love to help you communicate with clarity, confidence and alignment when the stakes are high.
If that’s something you’re navigating, book a conversation with me or send a DM.
A Final Note
With so many big personal moments these last few weeks, I’ve leaned into quieter moments where simple things done well matter: good books, interesting conversations, beautiful places, and experiences that leave people with stories worth retelling later.
But I also appreciate that life, lived in full means going all-in.
This weekend marks Memorial Day, so I will use the next few days to find ways of honor all the men and women in uniform who paid the ultimate sacrifice for our country and its freedoms. They are deserving of our unified gratitude.
May their memory be a blessing, their souls eternal, and the purpose of their sacrifice endure.
—Lauren
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